哪个妮：feel like a loser.
when will my life become normal like a 23 year-old girl ?
who should always have the real happiness in their innermost recess at this nice age.
i haven't.
i suffered and it never ends.
when it comes to making a choice in future career,i really fear.
i fear the choice i make will be worse than the being condition.
if i can choose, i would rather be chosen .
but things alwanys turn out worse than i think.
it seems that there dooms a aweful situation for me to face, to choose, and to make a decision.
life is not going to be easy, i know, of course.
but why it continues for such a long time and seems never end?
"what doesn't kill you makes you stronger"
totally not!
i became a total loser with no confidence ever since , and never can stand up.
i am no more strong, and fear in anything that i will face.
"God doesn't give us more than he knows we can handle."
but i got to say i cannot handle any more.
God please give a way out.
if things continue like this , i am not sure what i am going to do on myself.
i feel sorry for myself, for being such an unsuccessful foreign trade salemen.
i even don't whether it is right for me to be in this area.
i am confused and feel at sea.
i feel such a loss after graduation.
it is so rediculous and ironic when comparing my being condition with my glorious college life.
i always think the effort i made in college can be a golden ticket to a successful future career.
but now it seems i am the silliest one .
your family background ,money and the luck top everything.
the fact makes me growing a diappointment to this society!
alas..
dongxi5：it is the time to arrive the successful after the loser
哪个妮：
but too long to wait .
dongxi5：patience is the key of success..
哪个妮：
i hope so ..but nothing can hold me to continue,,
dongxi5：come on ,the bright is coming :GL
哪个妮：
one year ago ,i believe the bright future is coming.butnow.where.?
dongxi5：one life is so long ,one year is nothing, believe anything bad will be passed
lcq100101：Don't cry, because it will be over;
Smile, because it happened.
Everything you went through and suffered will become precious treasure in your life.
Figure out what kind of life you really want, then follow your heart and fight for that!
德尚：it is gone be ok.
帕偌斯：
一个小白菜：Don't fear.If the god close the door,he will leave you a window.
Just be happy and enjoy your life,everything will be ok!
哪个妮：
hey .what is your qq?..
i really thank you for your advice..
your advice is more useful than that my famlly and friends give me.
anyway.thanks.
哪个妮：
yes.i am waiting that window.
哪个妮：
i will ..but i still confuse about my future way.
李克专：kan bu dong a···
哪个妮：
try to figure out .heihei.
chengzi110：I have reatived a saying for myself in the most taugh time:
there is always a piece of shit in different toilet!
but what you need to do is just to flush it out!
i dont know how long have you been working in this industry, but if you are only 23 years old, then i will say: get over it ! work harder when you are working! play harder when you are playing.so you wont waste any time of your life and enjoy it even though it is not that tasted!
good luck! young lady!
tommy_linbin：You are too young to be a loser. You might have put too much pressure to yourself.
Get confidence back, 2012 is not the end of the world..
chengzi110：
呵呵，2012 might be the end of trading!
it is getting so bad...
哪个妮：
this trade is getting so bad ..i feel itsfuture is not so bright
哪个妮：
yes..i always ask highfor myself..demand a lot for myself to achieve.
哪个妮：
there is always a piece of shit in different toilet!
but what you need to do is just to flush it out!
i like this sentence.
ethan_shao：Its a confused period for a new employee with experience of 1 or 2 years just like a freshman at school studied for 1 or 2 years. it happens frequently and will be much more hard for u especially while facing more difficulties during this period. id ever had the situation similar to urs for 2 times. The main melody of life was full of feelings like disappointed,hopeless, lonely, confused. what id done was travelling around for a month or changing the circumstancei was in. adjust ur situation objectively. figure out the the main problem. most of the difficulties will be extended by ourselves. never be out of confidence. after overcoming these difficulties, life will be a new one.
anyway, u have to do some change to ur recent situation. good luck.
哪个妮：
thank you so much.i have made a decision..i will quit my job and change my recent situation.
chengzi110：
that decision was made so quickly......:L
have you thought though everything and the next step you are planning to go..?
哪个妮：
i say "i will ".hehe.
maybe after the new year, i will find another company.
wuai1127：yr englishi is good so only await the chance for u, of course, u also should make the preparation~
哪个妮：
yes.i am waiiting for god to give me a chance..
Teresa702：:funk: ur English is good!
哪个妮：
heihei .let't learn together,.
哪个妮：
i hope so.can u give me some tips?
younker2012：1楼，英语这么棒，不要失去信心，社会不比学校，我们都要慢慢适应！
gezhong：
you haven't seen everyone says in english? I'm here to contempt you.even I got the word contempt from youdao
gezhong：where there is a will there is a way.so go and find them.
best wishesand good luck:P
哪个妮：
thanks for your appreciation ..u give me power.
哪个妮：
have u experienced like this be4?
哪个妮：
u r so humor..hahah
搜时尚网：Wish you happier.
1st of Lunar New Year ,feel like replying your thread very much. Mark first .
哪个妮：
thank u . it is my honor..
姿态优雅：hihoneyi have the same experice with you, also the 23, also suffer this pain, but i have done foreign tader for one year and 8 months.some days before , inthe first year of my work,i have the same feeling with you.i also lose my confince and courge , i think i am a loser
but what i want to tell you is that now in the same company i have find back my confindce, and have more confince than before. you should just stay there, and find back your confince,. where make you fall down, you should stand in that place. and then you can shoose to leave or stay.but never lose your confindce. that is really important for our life.
and now, i find back my confidnce, but i also want to leave, i think the life do forgn trad is not what i like.at last ,best wishes for you , hoep you can have a nice life.
difficlut is short, life is long, better life is waiting for you, be yourself, do what you like. life will be wonderful.
huchangweiwill：i am very tired and feel alone,maybe i should go back home to be an english teacher,but may salary will reduce to 2000(current salary 7200+1?00,1o hours everyday,without any break,mongolia )who can help me
哪个妮：
i think ur salary is good .. i have the same condition with u , whether go back to be a teacher or not .. to be a teacher is not what i want.but it is better than a foreigh trade saleman..it is hard tio choose,,,:(
哪个妮：
thank u very much ..but i still confuse whether i should quit my job as a foreign trade saleman..i only work for 4months ,,i am not clear whether i fit this job or not.
smlieyu：IT IS AA B C SONG
哪个妮：
what r u talking about?
smlieyu：
i always think the effort i made in college can be a golden ticket to a successful future career.
很多事情就像字母，你虽然认识那些个字母，但24个不同的组合排序后你都认识吗？
别把自己想的太高，别把自己放的太低，你还是你，英雄不问出处。
做好你能做的这是关键。
祝你成功。
哪个妮：
别把自己想的太高，别把自己放的太低，你还是你，英雄不问出处。
i know what u mean now. thanks.
Kuroky_W：it seems that there are many guys here with unbeatable minds and strong heart, good to see that,really.
everyone has a period that he might doubts what he can accomplish or what kind of a person he is, it is quite normal, we all had a difficult time once. take a break and do some things that make you happy, find out your direction and fight again.
what we can offer is just advice, you are the one that make decision, good luck.
Holly28：I think your english is excellent, do you want to be an interpreter?
哪个妮：
yes , it is my dream.. a high dream in the future.
哪个妮：
i hope this hard period will end soon. and i have decided to quit my job recently.i need to change to a new environment..maybe good things can come later
760631635：went through your letter, l learned so much both English and life experience .
I am a foreign trade salesman and 23 years old too,sometimes i may in trouble and i never feel i am a loser ,so be confident and believe you can do it !
哪个妮：
幸会！ maybe your road is more smooth than me.
Kuroky_W：
then just do it if that is what you want, cheer up!
chenyanqiu：不要想太多，都还年轻呢，我们就是把太多的时间败给了伤感，借用一句话：每天清晨起来看见太阳和你都在 这便是我想要的未来。 为自己找个伴，遇事有了商量、倾诉的的对象，believeall the unsmothy things will be break off!
第一回回帖，希望你好好加油！
Tinasusu：sometimes,good choose is more important than efforts.
So,believe yourself.you'll be a winner one day!
哪个妮：
hehe ,,my honor..thank u.i will try to stand up
哪个妮：
i hope my choice is right this time .ths.
爱之酷：有个人和我说过: 往往你到绝望的时候奇迹就会出现了，加油！
哪个妮：
前方是绝路，希望在转角~
文章首发表于：2012-1-15 21:33
