chenshow：What should i do?
I've been in a private company for one month. however, i always feel it's boring and i'm not working for myself. My parents wish to see me have a job and keep doing on, and they can put down the stone in their heart. i have to bear the pressure myself. I get up early everyday and go back home very late; i doubt whether i suit for this job. many times, i just wanna give up. but the pressure from my family comes. I have no choice.
a question forms in my brain: For what i am here, For what i am working for? i wanna leave but where can i go?
The boss here would like you to work without rest, it is a familial company and thay wanna exploit you. the family member who don't understand anything often feel not satisfied with your activity. sometimes this makes me sick.
now i live alone, i have to do everything myself,when i go back home, i feel lonely. i can't see my future. Is it a waste of my life? What should I do?
today one of my colleague will resign which makes me more complicated..
Ifi can cry I will cry. How long can I bear? Everyday is the same..
I wanna go but nowhere to go. Am i gonna die? boring. By the way, i haven't got my salary this month. help!
how I wish someone to talk to me! i am lonely. What should I do on earth? I have no choice.
chenshow：发点感慨，真的很无助，无奈。
johny94：Very many foreign trade sale situation same with you,u should better notgo to the family company, if has the opportunity, goes to the regular large-scale company.In the small family company, only wastes your time.
Moreover, your English is very good, can teach me English?
mandy96：唉````我也好孤独``今天 又要开会``郁闷``
hanglong526：if you have nowhere to do,why aren't you change yourself?Online learning nowadays is a popular way of improving yourself.We livingin this world is to strive to get the thing we want ,not the useless things.If you have much experience,then you can go outside and be independant .
let's cheer for our dreams!come on!
mandy96：呵呵```你们英语``都 好强``` ``
freshman921：我有时跟你心情很像 ，茫茫然和无助的感觉，但我们要学会调节自己，努力去战胜自己，未来一定会越来越好的
chenshow：
now i have no chance, i just look like a nail tied to the company. i wanna a change but many times one thing changes a man not a man changes the thing. I really have no choice this time.
Besides your English is good, trust yourself.
chenshow：
That's the dream for all of us. But to realize it needs years of suffering. I will try to go on as far as I can. No matter what the end is, thank you all.
yaogq959：生活是美好的
生活有很多事情可以做，对啊、象你有这样的想法说明你是个有想法的人，才会离开那个是非之地，我支持你，凭什么他们什么都不懂就可以指手画脚啊！幸会！
Dominictan：
Come on! There's no doubt that we will encounter many doubts, setbacks, defeats in the long run with our business trip. Through our will and striving, we will confront and over come them. Don't shrink back, you should know that, it's a truth that life is not always wonderful as you expected, it's just a succession of moment most of which you feel longly. Endure the longliness and have fun in it, don't forget your goal. At last, when the time comes, you will find that everything is different, different enough to make you proud and cry for your effort.
By the way, are you a boy or gal? If you are a boy, don't be so impotent. Come on, take out your guts, enhance yourself by recharging. This is your one of battles in your life, defend or defeat? Your choice. No one will sympathize a loser. Good luck for you.
不谈恋爱很多年：
candywbb623：都是这样的
很无奈
:time:
yuezhan007wyz：不知道1楼怎么会这样难过其实家人会理解我们的
如果自己觉得不好做 可以和他们沟通一下
也许有机会挽回
父母终究是为我们好的
难道有条件优越如微软 而你难过如地狱的事情吗！
加油吧
insist210：earth is big, China is big, you can go anywhere you want to go, if you have ability, you can live well anywhere, believe yourself, you will better and better, but at first , you should to change yourself.
ljxpjpjljx：为啥都喜欢用英语啊？
一生逍遥：work for yourself,your family,do it
提提：Everyone have different mood all in a day ,so don't feel so sad when you have any trouble.
You can think this trouble will bring somthing useful to you.Come on ,everything will be OK!
terry1025：同是天涯沦落人，俺的情况和你差不多
chenshow：I have to admit: I feel better now. Thank you, my friends.
mary5208：就当是锻炼英语了！
1楼的问题是很普遍的，调整心态，实在待不下去就走好了，肯定会找到工作的
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kian：
work for money, work for food
U can change nothing, but your own ability
Try to look the bright side of things, and face the current difficulties bravely
U are not young already, be a man!
172915zhth：
come on! six months ago, we stay in the same condition, i worked in a private co. i am a green hand and just graduated from a college, i come to this company , within one month nobody talk with me and teach me, everything depend on myself, i always want to change my condition, but nobody helf me, i ask some question , they always play at me and give a boring face. i am afraid. i want to quit my job, i worked one month, my salary is 400, the company detain my salary,and i must pay the rent and other charge. i want to turn help for my classmates or my friend , but you know maybe they stay in the same condition or looking for the job, i want to quit my job, but the family not allowed, what should i do, and everyday i send the eatablished business to the customer, it is borning and no reply, what should i do, i want to quit my job,but the press from the family , i have no choice, now i still worked in this company , and i have a good relation with my collegues . sometimes when you want to give up, may be you will get success if you insist on.
chenshow：
we have the same experience. Thank you! And i will keep going on no matter what i will face.
melodychj：
1楼要现实。好工作人人想要，没有关系和运气是很难找到的。我跳槽过一次，现在在一家公司工作，还是会有那样的感觉。其实去哪边工作一开始都很难的，做久了才能适应。这个社会就是这么boring。如果要凭自己的真本事，就得克服和忍耐。忍耐了这些才有可能发展，不能逃避。仅是我的感触
gaochongshan：i feel u don't be confident,just keep move,never give up,So, in a nutshell, when it comes to choosing a career, know what you love, love what you do, do what you love, and success will inevitably follow.
PALLASFF：work for yourself!come on!
黯淡的温暖：我看不懂啊，看不懂啊，就是看不懂.
我不懂英语啊，不懂英语啊，现在在学..
vivien_8822：everyone will face the siimilar situation when fininshing the campus life,which will be unavoidably to encounter.overcoming such dilemma depends on ur own optimistic attitude and persistent spirit.
however,u may try to turn to another suitable job when getting the proper opportunity if the situation has turned to be the worst point.anyway,u have keep the belief that tomorow is a new beginning,everything will be changed as the time goes.so maybe if u stick on it ,the situation will be improved ,who knows
cheers!
falexy：弱弱的说，严重怀疑某些人是Google翻译的，彪悍的英语啊
jsjmonday：你可以悲伤，但不能彷徨
freya.kuai：Beoptimism, everything will be Ok.
believe yourself.you can.
Fighting!!
getrightone：cheer up!
每天对着镜子说我行，我行！我有信心！
szqunying：maybe it is a progress that most of the foreigh trade sales should experience, only experience this and insist on can we get what we want!
season_yu：Just believe，“everyone is NO.1”,please relax yourself,I think your life will be colorful,come on
jessicliu：believe yourself,come on,you will be NO.1
努力中的小蜗牛：work for bread,work for milk,even more work to realize self-fulfilment .
Just follow ur heart ,then let it be .....
小可怜：我们好像，很想放弃，但是又怕爸妈为我操心幸会！
文章首发表于：2009-8-31 09:27
