摘录“经文”Idoknowthatt

benzku：摘录“经文”！
I do know that the first step toward getting there is recognizing that you want to get there. All change begins here, and no change is
possible until you have the deep desire for it. It' extremely important that you desperately want to live a life as described above.It is equally important that you not particularly care whether you do or not.If this sound like a paradox to you,you are absolutely correct.It is. Remember that all paradoxes are resolved as you reach higher leves of understanding,even the ultimate paradox of all-that which we call life.

zslxiaoxiao：〓【★你以为刻骨铭心，其实我早就忘记了★】〓

benzku：You should be steadfast in your pursuit of that goal,but not fixated on it or consumed by it. Your ideal life does not yet exist.You will have to construct it in bits and pieces--somewhat like a jigsaw puzzle.

benzku：There are many prerequisites,the most important being a change in your intentions. Instead of relating to others solely with the purpose of fulfilling a personal agenda,it becomes critical that whatever you are trying to accomplish bring material and spiritual good to a larger community. Another condition for a change and transformation is that you learn how to let go.You have to relinquish the ego-driven need to be in control,the feeling--in reality,always false--that you are the orchestrator of events.