sieman18：what will you do when you feel boring ?
Day and day and day's boring, i felt i've been doing nothing since long long time before.. Everyday when i open email box, i found nothing but just seveal junk mails. .Then the boring day began. i need to find sth out to do .searching clients on the line, visiting some websites, check email again and again..i hate this kind of life. i am an ambicious man.i'd like to explore potential markets and clients. i want to get more orders.i need more money to live in shenzhen and date with girls and support my families..But how can i do with it when i was facing this unresistable reallity..
fran-sea：
laurasyj：Things will be different if you try something new to motivate your life.
Try to detroy the routine by yourself even if you just go out for a picnic with your friends.
紫玫瑰：when i feel boring i will chat with my net friends ,sometimes can get some useful information.come on , every thing will be ok.
sieman18：thank you for friends from fobshanghai
Every time when i felt helpless, i can find some true and sincere friend there who would like to share their experiences and feelings with me. Thank you for all the visitors.I love you all..i will try to adjust my attitude and mood.The future is bright, but road is full of thorns and frustration
sieman18：
Thank you to be my first supporter.
leo092400：
您的英语是不是不错啊！
有空教教我吧！我想提高一下英语啊！
daniuelliu：
this is a good way to change your mood.
sieman18：
That is not a bad choice! thank you . but i am afraid i have no chance to do such sweet things.I am friendless in shenzhen.
ppjohn：do nothing just relax~~
sieman18：
Your way of killing the boring time are similar to me.. but recently i found no one were willing to listen my endless talking..They names me a madman.
sieman18：
Never mind! if you are willing to listen me rattling and grumbling all the time.
sieman18：
I could not agree with this any more. where are my friends ? who want to be my friends? Please add me and help the poor lamb lost in the world of human beings..
sieman18：
The easy way of relax is take a deep breath and stop thinking those complicated and unsure things.. Find sth interesting and enjoyable ..But the point is i can not find anything funny.
zengweizhi：my english is no so good!but i can understand allmost. i do not know is right or wrong with english that just i say
lai198412：after looking in your word ,i mean English ,
I get a sense of inferiority seriously.
Sophia_hu：I think nobody is willing to listening querimony,even if i feel as the same as you sometimes, but i don't like to talk about the unhappy things with my friends
sieman18：
Don't worry,friend! If you want to keep or improve your english, just read english books,newspapers or magazines 10 minutes each day loudly.Remember (loudly) ..
Sophia_hu：i think the most important thing is that you should adjust your attitude
209kitty：why not sleeping!!!!!!:P
Roke：you should to be the best yourself, and conquer yourself. i believe we can
zengweizhi：
thanks very much! i consider my english sense is no bad all the tiames!And now is off duty time bbye everyone!
sieman18：
It's impossible to sleep in the office!
sieman18：
Great. i am glad to hear what you said. full of confidence. Success would only be fallen onto well prepared andconfident person!
marcia1986：
If I can have a order or a client,even a inquire at least,when I was sleeping,I will not hesitate to go to bed!~I feel LZ's circumstance is so fimilar with me,maybe I saw myself in the mirror!~:( :(
sieman18：
Yeah, thanks, you are right! If i can control myself every time, in every place, i think i would suceeded or at least acheived sth at that time.
sieman18：
some many friends from fobshanghai have the same feeling and experiences..let us sing the song "friends"
sieman18：Tomb-sweeping day is coming
Hope all of you have a nice holiday!. Realize your dream, get what you want, relations with lovers,relatives,families and friends goes well.
qiuping：
a185876277：thesamewithyou i'mvery farfrommyhometown,andioftenfellhelplessandlonely.
butikonw
tomorrowisanother day. ithinkeverythingwillbebetter.
sightseer：If possible, I suggest you to change the enviroment around you..
suuny610：for onepoint i have to speakthat is you have tofutherimprove your English level !hope youwill not mind ,in additionther is old saying that "where is there iswill ,there is a way " just believe yourself andmoveforward step by step ,trust you can !come on !
railey-haihuan：me too
i have the similar situation with you,i also don't know how to do,hate this life,feel very boring and tired.but we should persist in!
misshome：ur mood and situation will determine action.
try to control yourself.
then perhaps the nature of male differs much from female, say pressure, attitude, and commucication which i consider is a good way to l ease your anxiety, but i don't kno whether it works for female.
anyway, be happy!
zengweizhi：
kan bu taidonghaha :L
hwq0637：大部分人过着和你一样的生活，有什么大不了的，关键是态度
xugz_666：just view some web and take a rest.
smilezyw：similar to you,but i'm still a college student,i'm interseted in foreign trade,but ii have no iead what to do t help my future carrer. recently, i found i have no passion,ever day i just browse the web,reading novels,watching entertaiment programme. really can't bear this kind of life,but don't know what to do
209kitty：haha,never have nothing to do ,just depends on yourself
209kitty：ask somebody to teach you ,don't miss any opportunity,learn yourself
spiritcindy：where there is a will,where there is a way
zlong029171253：其实 good good study,day day up 就可以了
生活有很多无奈 请尽量充实自己
有时候 生活就像强奸 既然不能反抗 就要学会享受
1楼和看过的不要打我呀！！
daniuelliu：哎！真的是无语了……
watchrose：Oh,my dear,I think I have the same feeling with you,exactly!my god!
Lilyzhang1106：hehe,
just do what you like and your life will be better
flyingsandy：browse the articles on the website,
chat with others
listen to music
try to find sth to do
aleks85：maybe my english is so poor that i find many errors..
Fianna：Yes,I think you should find the way to relax!Shenzhen is one of the fastpaced society,so in order to not be boring,just adjust your mood and change your way to look at the world around you,and never forget to smell the flowers around!
Come on,guy!I would like sent u one sentence:If you don't like it,change it;If you can't change it,change the way you look at it!
Just do taht!
demi_kk：life will be better in near future after the hardness
jtlx50：英语都好厉害呀，真惭愧。
Gary205：When i feel boring with my work,I just take a walk outside and take a deep breathe.
sometime i stop my work and just stare the screen for a long time,think about something
happiness or unhappiness.But believe yourself tomorrow will be better.
hqlisa：i have the same situation with you.sometimes i will be upset.in that time i will ask myself if this is my right job.if i want to change it, how?if i don't have the enough brave to change it then i will choice to be suitable with it.just think something happiness or tell myself everything will be great!
lanseshang88：你做外贸多久了啊?怎么和我的状态一样哦，每天狂发邮件，注册无数B2B网站，效果还真不明显。再不出现点希望的光芒，我真的要在沉没中爆发了````
sieman18：
Hi, don't say that! If all of our fob friend all such picky and check every sentence or words someone else issued out, then there will be no person who dare to air their views freely and happily. Anther point is, english does not mean everything..Some friends earn much more money,get more orders than those who are good at english...Instead of being profecient in english, i'd like to be the "richer person"..
sieman18：
Just trying to be more open, find some one who is reliable and can be trusted, relieve yourself from sufferings by speaking those unhappy things out..
sieman18：
I hope so.
sieman18：
Thank you for your inspiring and encouraging words..My mother univeisity is Minjiang University of Fuzhou.So friends from Fuzhou seems more intimate and closer for me.
sieman18：
Surounding environment is objective, i am too weak to change it.
sieman18：
I will, but even if my english is good, i am not happy.i still feel lost..
sieman18：
Stick on striving and fighting.
sieman18：
业务做的好，才是真正的强者。我们这些都是这方面的失败者。
sieman18：
是，态度问题。不过我只是想借这个机会和大家沟通，交流一下。
sieman18：
What you means is adapted myself into the environment .
sieman18：
It seems most of us go through the same processings and experiences..That is inevitable process for every foreign traders. Hope we will get orders from clients soon.Now, only orders can make me feel satisfied and successful.
sieman18：
Quanzhou is my hometown, Thanks for the friend from quanzhou to come here and air your opinions. Doing sth futile or unrelated to work or inprove myselfmeans doing nothing for me.
sieman18：
你说的有道理，有些时候需要学会接受现实。
sieman18：
看来都有同感！同志们我们该怎么尽快跨过这个门槛？ 努力吧！！！
JOY3645350：Things don't change,u change the way of thinking.That's all!
sieman18：
That's exactly what i should think about~! thank you!
can911：
you can chat on qq! come on! you can,we can!
sieman18：
QQ is not allowed to be used in our company!~!. Only in msn, but as we known, all days chatting will make you feel extremely boring too..
helly1985：
u said it! i like chat on qq and msn,chat with chinese and foreigner(not about business)
can911：
maybe music is useful to you .Try to relax.For me ,i can't survive without music.
ajian2：i have the same problem with overlord，and i also found it weaste time to sit beside the computer.
sandsabrina：I SIT BESIDE THE COMPUTER ，I HAVE NO ORDER，MY EYES AREGETTING WORSE AND WORSE，I FEEL BORINGBORING BORING。
can911：
are you comefrom zj aj???
bailingocean：It seems that most of the foreign trade merchandizers nearly have the same problem, me included. You're better than me, you have emails to read at least every day, but I can get nothing even junk mails, I'm alwayscomplaining to my friends, while complaining brings me nothing but bad mood. So stop complaining, adjust your mood, everything will be fine, you will get what you want.
zzjjcc66：Junk mails and junk mails again and again, no reply to my mail day after day
I think I need some complete rest for adjusting, maybe travelling to another city is a good idea~
suchen007：If you are boring,just go out and do some sports,have a deeply breath and seek some funny;P
adai_100：there is a will, there is a way
sandsabrina：
I wantto travel toQingdao!~Just have a good trip!~
sieman18：
Since time goes on, we will feel more and moreimpatient,anxious and lose-temper.
stella528833：take it easy~it's really boring same as me,hehe.but may be some day you will get a big order.Noted customer seems like a plant.
God bless you!
sieman18：
Please don't thought i am better than you! we are in the same situation! Hope we can share more experiences and stories with each other.i've added you into my contact list!
sieman18：
That means i should change the job,change the environment! i've also felt tired of changing jobs..I think it's the most wastiful and helpless decision. .Even if you find another job in a new and strange city, it's hard to avoid facing the similar boring situations and chanllenges..In the first several months, it maybe fresh for you, but as time goes on..
sieman18：
I will go playing basketball at weekend! But during working hours, how can i go out and do sth unreachable?
jessica206：
Maybe，easy to say,hard to do!
xinyu9141：I really don't know how to change my situation at present! No order,no passion!Only spend every day like a machine!How to change? Who can help me?
zzjjcc66：
I like my job very much,I just thinkI'm not in a good state. My passion has been taken away by such a boring life, I need some change in my mind. Maybe having a good journey in a leisurely mood is a good way to refresh myself.
Foboy：1楼是从外语板块过来客串的？
carter15：your english is very good.
when i feel boring and helpless, i will do some other things to relax me and read some articles, some times i come here and learn some usefull knowledge.
Last year, i often felt same as you. but now i think i have lots of things to do.should learn much more things in order to make me productive and useful. in this way, i canearn more.
Hope you can change yourself .
sieman18：
No, i like to share my stories and experiences with fobshanghai friends. I feel this is not a bad way to maintain my enligsh level. Otherwise, i am afraid i will forget everything i learnt,every single english word, and even forget how to open my mouth to speak english...
sieman18：
I am really appreciated of what you issued on my topic. And i can not agree with your sayings any more..Just find sth new and fresh to learnt or read articles or gather informations to improve myself. That maybe the best way of eradicate the boring feeling..
sieman18：
Except doing the normal job, the only thing i could do is praying...!
winter0597：i am in the same working situation as you .i feel boring too .my job just search clients on internet,sometimes i lost my way ,so i visit FOB.
sieman18：
Yes, most of fob visitors come here to kill the boring time .. The more fequently they come, the more boring time they have
winter0597：i agreewith u \
susie潘：dontbe boring, just to work hard to earn money.
longing03：可不可以说中文啊，呵呵
michaelfuwei：
carson0423：hehe
you ask me i ask who?
carson0423：理解
刚才回答的有点残酷,事实上我和你一样是外贸新人!每天我和你一样,对着电脑发呆,早已经没有了当初的激情!但是刚毕业没有经验只有继续下去,希望咱们都能有美好的明天!我的MSN-carson_0423@hotmail.com
huyun8：go on and fighting,then to better condition,everything will be better
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