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曾翔：工作刚开始，然后就悲剧了
Hi everyone,I am Hover,a freshman joining in the society.
I always think that I should find a girl and then fall in love,and then get married with her. Luckly, I find her in my university,during the sweet time, I do my best for her,her words is my goal and my target is making her happy.
After graduated from university, I came to Shenzhen for my carrer,she went her hometown.before my work starting,I went to her hometown to see her,everything seems as usual.we had a 3-day happy life.
I began my work,and try to switch my energy to my work.Of course ,we chatted in the phone as usual,we sent messages everyday.nothing gonna change.
Just a week later,tragedy come.She said she fall in love with others,the workmate of her.so funtastic!!so rediculous!!It does upset me deeply! What happened after I left her for my carrer?What happened to her or is it my fault to disappinont her? I feel I should do something to save our love(maybe it is just my love).I went to her again,and get the answers:her family is against a long-distance love between us (actually we are live in a province but different city.)and she agree that funtastic thing and divert her attention to others around her.Then he come to appear,just a week,she said she like he and he like her,too. I doubt it !
I always think about a formula : love within 3.5 years + graduation + love at distance < a word from family + one-week feeling .
I said to her that I will be waiting for her back,yet,she said I have no chance again.
Without her ,I do fell my world is fade.what can I do ? what should I do? How to Prevail again.I need your help ,dear.

lcq100101：hey buddy, 我只想说坚强起来, 诚然失恋是很痛苦的, 但是只要一个人不是自己主动愿意放弃自己的生活, 失恋是不可能彻底摧毁一个人的. 坚强起来, 你还有你的事业你的家人这些都是激励你奋斗的因素好好努力我想真正属于你的那个女孩早晚会出现的不是吗只能说你大学里的那个前女友和你不是一家人想开点没什么大不了的

jamesking2011：Hey guy .I only want to tell you thatlove seeme very luxury in your age .It is theperiodwhichyou should struggle for your career .You should understand you can't fetch a bear palm anda fish in the meanwhile .Whatever your gf seemed very selfish.She is not deserved your love .
Leave her fora new life .

Chris-wu：
you should switch all your energy to your work, and time can cure your sadness.

bluedust：:funk: 给你介绍FOB论坛英文版你可以去那边玩玩

echololy：
hey,guy, you should understand god have his reason to arrange all the good and bad things in your life, if you can not change it, then accept it. You will get used to this. Trust me. Time cures everything.

Daniel8706：
失恋这病有两种药能治，一个是时间，一个是新欢。
如果你还是摆脱不了阴影
那只有两个原因：一，时间不够长！二，新欢不够好！

fjxiangbao：楼上的淫才呀

a550960：
Never talk about long-distance love, enless you have a lot money.
This is life. Dude

曾翔：
谢谢你，刚分开几天，胸闷，无处发泄。

曾翔：
Thank u at all. I should live for myself from now on.

wht310：我知道你的感受，只因我也处于这个状态中。每天看到什么都会想到她，连做梦都会梦到。工作感觉没有激情，因为失去了曾经支持着的那个支柱。每天做着一件答应过她要做的事情。

曾翔：
有些话，用中文说会别扭的，只能在这里发泄一下，谢谢你

曾翔：
不敢再去love了，让时间来改变一切吧，正如你所说的，时间不够长。

曾翔：
好吧，我也就是每天还会给她打个电话，每天还会给她发晚安信息，或许是习惯了。呵呵，习惯真可怕！

nancy李东妮：
Come on ,Guy.Everything will be OK

紫蓝胖妞：
英文版在哪啊？哈哈，我也想知道，;P

jiechuang：your previous gf is lucky, a man love her so deeply.

dawncoming：
Very sorry to hear that..
In my opinion,if one-week's feeling can defeat 3.5years's "love",then you'd better give up this girl.
Maybe that will do harm to your inner heart,and you will lost yourself in sorrow for a long time.
Everything will be past.Cheer up.
I like a sentence，and you may have heard of it---
一个人总要走陌生的路
看陌生的风景听陌生的歌
然后在某个不经意的瞬间
你会发现，原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情
真的就那么忘记了

blueheartfish：abetter girl is waiting for u 幸会！

淡淡春山：
你只是不成功的一个但也不要怀疑爱情下回出现了也要好好爱
告诉你: 我跟我男友就是大二上学期谈朋友一起毕业现在工作三年了我们一直在一起今年年底两边办喜事结婚

淡淡春山：我同事跟她男友
是高中谈恋爱大学异地分开四年毕业后在一起现在已经工作一年了感情一直很好
只是说你碰到的那个女生不好并不是说以后的爱情就不好
下回碰到属于你的了还是该好好爱

曾翔：
恭喜你啊，修成正果了！你们的爱情是毕业了，但我们的爱情却辍学了

johnyueng：congratulations！这个女孩不属于你，属于你的东西是永远不会自己溜走的 u should do what u should do now,forget her.

斷線·的·風箏：还是选择忘记吧，有些事情也强求不来···大家都懂的，只是不愿放弃那份执着····加油吧···

曾翔：
太认真了，所以我输了

carlchen2012：...还搞英文，要飚英文么？

Beyond_messi：这样的女生不值得你爱，她若爱你，定不会告诉你她喜欢上别人了。过去就过去了吧，过一段时间你会真正的成熟起来。

曾翔：
不敢啊，老大。只是写中文写到最后怕胸闷。

moonspirit100：Forget her!The girl doesn't deserve your love

zhy281220：不知道为什么，中文论坛，我就特别讨厌看见英文回复。

灰小里：
同时失恋且失业的男孩子
走过，
失恋的感觉只有失恋的人体会
我懂你。
冷静一下吧，
要么旅游，
要么看佛.
躲避一下红尘的揪心。

Owen1979：只能说那个女孩根本没爱过你。那么薄情，那么寡义，不值得去爱。

Jenny9219：
旧的不去。新的不来
相信你会找到更好的

Demoevil：Sorry to know about ur story. but be a man .another one gonna take her place instead . .
by the way . the tense of discription shall be the same .. some errors should be care.
ppl in the same domain . such as trading. shall keep learning hard and never give up .

搜吼：:L 不就是个失恋么像个爷们一样的站起来

mgchen：似曾相识的感觉，有时候，在一起也许只是天时地利人和的缘分，而分开可能也只需要一个星期的时间。半年前，他也是这样，2月14号的时候，我们还欢天喜地的说马上要见面了（毕业后不在一个城市），可是2月20号的晚上，就在电话里分手了。分手之后是难熬，也许听到一首歌便会失声痛哭，可是真的熬过来了，就会发现，其实一个人也没有什么不好，不在为谁心烦，不在纠结，简单的快乐。一个人的时候，只要战胜了孤单，就会所向无敌吧！有时候想你说过的话，走你走过的路，如果还能怦然心动是不是就足够了。

gumicro：唉，老兄，只能说同是天涯沦落人，女人的话就当武侠小说好了，听听就好了

luyuqin：hey guy, u are new to society. now u need to struggle for career, not love. belive that u will find a better girl.
come on

riter2011：长距离爱情都不长久，不管你是不是大学里就在一起到现在很久的。还是不要分隔两地的好。抱抱1楼，还是想开点，她已经很清楚的告诉你结果了，不要再自寻烦恼了，女人一旦变心，很难拉回来。

曾翔：
就是没想到会变的这么快，就一个星期而已。

曾翔：
第一次这么用心爱一个人（first love）！哎，本来还想一辈子就谈一次恋爱，一谈一辈子呢！

曾翔：
或许可以吧，7月23到现在，时间好短，但是不知道这几天我是怎样那么淡定的继续工作的，呵呵！也就下班回家后，特别想，特别害怕孤单。孤独的感觉，真不爽

曾翔：
哎，第一次失恋，估计要一段时间才能站起来了

曾翔：
其实，怎么说呢，反正就是她刚喜欢上他，她就跟我说了，要是她以后再告诉我，估计我更受不了。

曾翔：
好吧，我是请了一个星期假回去的，回来老板还要我，呵呵。以后，真的不敢爱了

曾翔：
如果说成熟的代价是失去她的话，我真的想说一句：what a fucking mature.

怪坡马铃薯：异地恋没什么可能的。她要不爱你你就放弃，她要还爱你要么跟你出来要么你回去。

LxxNikki：这样说你千万不要生气，这么容易在如此短时间内就死心踏地喜欢另外一个人的女生，你也许真的要放手。如果是因为家人反对而要分手，如果她对你还有情，即使她说出“分手”二字也会泪流满面的，如果她冷静的出奇跟你摊牌，那没有挽回的余地了。你还年轻，会有适合你的女子在某一处等着你。

曾翔：
可问题就是她跟说的时候哭的稀里哗啦的！弄的我自己都不太确定是因为家庭，还是真的因为他。
然后我还特地到了下她家。她妈是笑着说:呵呵，太远了（坐车也就四五个小时的事，远个P啊）她爸说考虑考虑。

sarezhang：
校园爱情。恭喜你们啊。

达迈车灯：毕业即分手。太正常了。太常见了。

sarezhang：失恋是一件小事！！
既是失恋，就已经是失去了，何必为了过去的事而伤心，耿耿于怀。干嘛要为难自己呢。希望楼上的失恋这善待自己。

曾翔：
其实呢，有些事我都懂，有些话，我也明白，但是有些人真的不是说明白了懂了就可以瞬间忘记的，毕竟一起3年半了，这份情，这份爱，真的不是说割舍就能割舍的。
以前我也可以站在一个旁观人的角度看这个问题，很淡然。现在到自己了，说不出的堵得慌，感觉就是憋着一股气，没发泄出去一样。

mgchen：
看过失恋33天吗？一个星期可能会失恋，一个月的时间，可能也会让你重新处于恋爱的状态。这世界有着太多的不确定，我们需要淡定。亦要相信下个路口还会有遇见。

mgchen：
人家这英文写得简单又贴切的，您老就不要讨厌了，看人家失恋就够心里折腾的了。

koller.stronger：Don't fuck yourslf ,okay ,please be camble !
you are going to jeck off without bitches

曾翔：
看过啊，还看过“搜索”呢，但那毕竟是电影！

曾翔：
Maybe. But I do feel down right now.Everything I can do is nothing.

梦里梦外：没人帮得了你，一切都得靠你自己，别人的意见总归是意见，跟着自己的心走就好。有时候听取别人的意见多了，难免会迷失了自己。爱自己，做自己

iristomato：Hi，i just broke up with my bf last month. Longdistance is the main reason. We made phonecalls every day, but just after a period time we had no word to say. I feel so tired and tired of the silence after answering the phone. May he was the right person, but not the right person in the right time in the right place.
You will be fine, she left you, but she also left you the best memory. Now you should look forward, cause the right person inthe right time in the right place is waiting for you. Don't made her waiting for so long.

胡芬：somentimes, the God doesn't want to not give you what you want, he just want to give you the better. you just waiting for their coming

曾翔：
Many thanks to the beauty lying in the memory.
But the memory of this girl may not sustain me through the terror, the pain, the hopelessness this time.
Maybe the pitiful is born to be hatred and I,now,am pitiful.

曾翔：
May the God bless me.

tommy_linbin：Over is over, find a new girl..

huwmei0107：Move on.To be honest, I had same experience as you before.Last week still told you" i love you", next week closed the phone and sent you a letter to break off. In fact ,We just need time to accept the sudden reality.Everything will be ok. That thing happend many years ago.Later I run into my husband, after falling in love about 8 years, we got married,have a cute son now. So She is just not the right girl for you.Cheer up.You'll find your true love one.

FOBXman：
自古7楼出人才, 我是专门为人才而来.

iristomato：
You know when i broke up and sad, my father called me and tryed to comfort me. He was a little embarrassed,cause ,obviously, he's not good at doing this.
But at that time i knew if the whole world abandons me, at least i have my parents, who is one loves me best. So you are not alone and pitiful.
If she not worth remember, just forget it, it won't be worse.

jessie7373：帖子好火，这样的剧情，超级多的，只能说，好好照顾自己，过去的就让他过去吧，就算和好了，这个裂缝还是会存在的，以后还是会分

曾翔：
When should I run into my Snow White? No passion to love again.

曾翔：
有人问我，要是她回头了怎么办，我说：我会好好揍她一顿（当然，也就说说她一下），然后和她好好过。

曾翔：
she is worthy to be loved.
Anyway,I never feel lonely when stay with her during the school time.
Thank God,thank her.

zd3887038：:@ hey man !~what are you fucking doing? you area strong man.Girls evrywhere,everytime you can see. she is not worth for u to doing so.

lqb19850325：天涯何处无芳草，男人不能不讲感情，但是不要太讲感情，对儿女情长之类的要拿得起放得下。

lqb19850325：好马不吃回头草，1楼要是真吃回头草我只能替广大男同胞鄙视

乐如：What makes a man ,wanna give all his heart.

曾翔：
缺个人把我打醒。一群哥们朋友狂骂我的呵呵

曾翔：
回头花肿么样？嘎嘎

曾翔：
the fucking first love!!

NancyWu87：听起来怎么那么像我一个朋友的经历。

曾翔：
囧，你不会认识我吧。

曾翔：谢谢兄弟姐妹们了！
这么多天了，大家对于我的事的建议，我会好好考虑好的，失去的如果能回来，我就倍加珍惜，如果回不来了，只能自己默默承受。或许真的时间不够长，现在过去两周了，感觉自己还活在自己的假想里面，一直渴望的破镜重圆，一直希翼的从头再来都没有出现。
我只想说，有些事，作为男人，会去坚持，有些人，作为男人，会去等待。当然时间会是在2015年2月23号之前。那一天，我还会再来这里，但愿我还依旧记得，那些曾经美好的回忆。
至少还有外贸路陪我成长，至少还有我的外贸之路即将起航。

zidanee：hey man,i met the same situation of you,but now i feel nothing.and we can recognize the girl who you loved before is worthless,pls forgive the younth bring the kinds of harmness to us,we can not be beat,we should be stronger,come no,welcome to the single world.we can share much happy time,just forget her.

sbbcl：Hey man，come on，you should feel lucky cuz you finally know the one you loved doesn't love you.
somedays later, you will recover from this bad emotion.At that time, you will think you were so stupid to be so sad .
I still remember when i was broken up, i listen "don't cry"hundreds of times everry day. i like this song so much.You may like it too.

曾翔：
加油在今天，收获在明天。但愿我可以做到，但现在的我，真的很难！

sbbcl：
或许是那女的魅力不够导致外界诱惑力少吧
又或者那男的太优秀了。